Ive been doing ot of self reflection lately. More so about my poor communication skills and social abilities. This is something i worry about because i don have a sense of humour, i dont talk smart, i dont inspire others, im plain boring. Sometimes i want to be heard, but felt like nobody is listening. Sometimes i day dream about i could talk wisely and have people nodding thier heads in agreement. So this post is about listing what i want to say vs what other people what to hear? I guese people what to hear something inspiring and funny experiences. It have them frame this impression of you and is somehow remembered because of what inspired them or funny it was. Reflecting back from my few contacts from departmental sharing or sch leaders i felt that i share what i want to heard, but more like doesnt necessarily answer the question. I think i have alot of that. I hear ur questions. But i want to be heard first you know. At times my processing of thoughts are kind of slow where i wan to say something but the person hv moved on another topic. Then its too late for me to contribute anything. I dont know if this has to do with anything about me being slow in warming up or easily conscious about what other people thinks about me. Just easier to talk to some people but not all. I could talk well and be myself with people im comfortable with. Like when i told sh how i felt like i was neither here nor there and feeling lost. Then after that it was eaay to open up and learn about yap tendencies. These are the kind of conversationa im aiming for. Of coz the round robins ones are a killer because its always an absolute killer waiting for your turn and think about what to say. I guese now for a start i could think of what others inpires about me and note down funny experiences to share